Week update

This week started with me was busy with the G*** symposium as one of the committee... while hubby juggling himself in the office.

Tuesday - I'm still in EW for the symposium while hubby flew to KL for his presentation.

Today - I did some follow-up on the O*** submission and renew my international passport. What a challenged experience for me due to not giving the standard size of photo (still wonder why hubby boleh terlepas with the same size of photo from the same photo shop) . After some hot feeling with the I** officer. I know, I shouldn't angry them. They just doing their work and following their standard procedure. Furthermore, I went through the passport renew process for least than 2 hours. I should be bersyukur for that. There were a lot of people who have to wait for a long queue.
Hubby will be back home this mid night.

Tomorrow - Hubby will be at the office and I have to be the observer for I** training. Just to give me some idea on how to conduct my own training in the near future. Perhaps, I will be back in office in the afternoon.

Friday - Hubby will be at home for study leave. I need to settle trip for management visit to E** which supposed to be organized by end of the year. Yes...you can do it!

Saturday - I better plan the day properly as I would like hubby to have a peaceful weekend for him to study before his exam next week.

Plan to do

Morning

1. Prepare for breakfast & lunch
2. Laundry marathon
3. Swimming

Afternoon

1. Buy new air conditioning for bapak
2. Buy wheel chair for charity (I should do it as soon as possible as I already have the intention to donate from my b***)

Evening

1. Bring Harith for morning stroll at park

Night

Quality time for Harith and daddy


How about Sunday? I better do the planning tomorrow.

How i spent a Sunday without hubby?

Today I spent my morning with feeling like princess. I did my facial treatment, pedicure and hair cut. I spent almost Rm 128 for all the treatments. Huhu...hubby must be thought that he could not leave me for a long period frequently...afterwards the joint account would reduce tremendously in a day...hahaha

However, in the afternoon I went back to our own house in Desa Indah and then I felt like 'bibik'.
I did some cleaning routine such as sweeping the whole house, mopping the whole house and cleaning all the toilets..fuhhhhhhhhhh...tired...I need a spa massage then...huhu..nop. Not today.

In the evening, I brought Harith and my mom to the park for 'sharpening the saw' session.
So that's how I spent a Sunday without hubby.

Dear hubby,

I miss u so much...muahhh

Below are pictures of my last birthday gift from hubby..it is quite late because my birthday was in Sept. I just transfered the pictures from my hand phone.
Thank you so much my dear. I love you everyday.Wink(-:

Blaja main

Petang tek gi city fan. Mula2 takut...bila diajar main benda tok, mauk juak nya masuk


Dah masuk lam lubang tapi sik tauk mcm ne mauk kuar...


Akhirnya berjaya juak kuar...hehehe

Harith's progress

How do I would like to start this entry? As far as I remembered I never post anything regarding Harith's development. It was a challenged to find suitable time to blog and the most I can do is to update some pictures with very minimal remarks.
Since that we are in my mom house because daddy is in KL for his course, so I got more time to go online.
Harith is now 2 years & 2 months. At his age, some child already can speak some words. As per our last visit to Dr. Cheah. She mentioned that minimal about 50 words that a child should remembered at 2 years old.
However for Harith, he seldom called 'mama', 'papa'. He doesn't know to call 'nenek' yet. He can say 'masheh' which means terima kasih. He knows 'abre' & 'arriba' because he watch Dora the explorer DVD almost every day with about 7 to 10 times of repeating the same DVD.
So, the conclusion is Harith only got least than 10 words. I feel worried especially when meeting Dr. Cheah. I don't like to see her again. It is because she created unnecessary stress to me.

During last visit to her clinic (Harith got fever), she said that Harith is an over active child.
He can't keep still which we are totally agreed. He managed to find a paper bag under Dr.'s table during the consultation.
Dr. Cheah reminded us to do the following to reduce tantrum:

• Cuddle Harith once we arrived home. After a long day in nursery, he needs to know that mama and daddy still love him.

• Bring him for an evening walk at the park so that he could run and run until he satisfied and tired.

• No watching TV. Actually Harith doesn't like TV. We have to watch his program such as Barney and friends and Dora the explorer everyday until he sleep.

• Get him a pet such as fish to be watched. He will love the fish movement.

• Do not bring him to the supermarket. If in the supermarket, try to explain him types of vegetable and fruits available.

I read Pama magazine for this month about hyperactive child. I believed is just overactive but not hyperactive.

According to the magazine, child with high energy needs to reduce sugar in their diet. Harith doesn't drink else than his milk and plain water. He doesn't like glucose or ribena which I thought perhaps he doesn't like drinks with colors. That's mean he don't consume high sugar in his drink.
However, Harith is a little bit fussy about food. He still doesn't want to eat adult food. I need to blend all veggie and chicken dice to be mixed with his porridge. But lately, he is more into rice. Only rice! He doesn't want his rice to be mixed with some soup.
So, perhaps that's how he consumes his sugar.

Both me and hubby had our YM last night. I agreed with hubby. He doesn’t believe that Harith is hyperactive. Just that he is overactive compared to some children. He just lack of concentration while we tried to teach him about everything. He doesn't want to follow just because he has so much information in his brain and now he is in his period of compiling all the data. He is too busy to do everything and that's why he can't keep still every time and every where. It is a challenge to bring him to socialize during any social event because he can't bear to wait without doing anything. We can still bring him if the event got specious space for him to run and run.
He is just a typical child who deserves attention from his parents while they are around him.
What we need to do is to show him that we love him. No more kitchen matter as soon as arrived home. I need to cuddle and bring him outside of the house.
Yes, we have limited time to spend with him. Normally we reached home at 5.30 pm which mean another half an hour before maghrib prayer. At least there is something than nothing right. Finally, we have to praised Allah for his assistance to give us the patient.
Insyallah. Harith will release his potential one day which might be late compared to other kids but he will show it with pride. Mama & daddy love you.

Macam-macam ada

weekend tok mcam byk jak benda berlaku...
marek gi keja pe*** ya separuh hari...sengih kanan sengih kiri...lak org marah mun sik nampak muka...layan jak lah...sempat juak gamba ngan chikie...huhu mcm biak kecik..
nama juak children's day...tapi sayang sik dapat mbak Harith...mun sik mesti best bergamba sefamily

dah petang kemas gik rumah nok dah jadi macam tongkang pecah balit...walaupun sebelum kuar dah ok berkemas....heee...tension nya mun belum lamak kemas dah berterabur balit

sebelum kuar pagi sempat lah molah spageti pake lunch...mun nak brunch pun dah siap roti canai..
sik kebulur lah..malam nya sik kuar pun ...malas dah lagikpun Harith dah sik suka nangga shopping complex..better boh tensen kan dirik

ari tok pagi2 dah kemas beg daddy...8 hari daddy gi course kat shah alam...
kemas juak pake Harith masuk nursery baru esok.
kemas juak baju pake kamek duak berambeh rumah nenek seminggu tok

dah dekat lunch..Harith tido...lambat lah nak kuar
kul 2.30 baruk gi umah mak anta baju for iron oleh kak nor

baruk mak cerita pasal mok kenak admitted di GH
rupanya malam tadik dah
mulanya mak ngan mok mauk gi klinik sebab mok sik bait2 demam
tapi semua klinik tutup sebab malam hari sabtu
so last option gi colombia asia
sekali doktor madah jantung mok lemah
so, nya suruh gi GH

mak bila dengar panik lalu kenak tahan polis sebab drive sik bukak lampu keta
nasib sik kenak saman..polis kesian kali sebab mak madah nya kelam kabut ngembak org sakit nak pegi GH
lalu mok pun admitted

tadik ada ngabas mok..nya gik lemah..gi make mesin apa ntah namanya
ada mms ipul ngan nan tek gamba mok...

mok ya terkejut gilak kali lekak nek ong gugok dekat frezer sampe berdarah palak..ya effected jantung nya pulang kak ya...

hemm...mcm2 dugaan...

semoga semuanya selamat........rindu dah ngan daddy....muahaahaha

Open house raya cum house warming

Kamek or molah open house dah dekat nak abis syawal..sengaja sebab ramey member sikda mun molah awal...tp besalah..bila dah polah dari 60 pax estimate adalah dalam 40 pax nok datang..

sik hal lah lebih boleh sedekah..nasib bait ada mok pot, mok yon, nurul ngan mak nulong...mun sik memang sik beridang lah leka layan Harith melalak

Nasib juak Harith ok masa org datang..dengan syarat nya sik kenak kontrol...jadi nya jadi mandur ke hulu ke hilir berkaki ayam kuar masuk rumah...tandah jak lah...asal bahagia...

menu of the day...

catering dari aunty robiah

• nasik tomato
• manok masak merah
• daging itam

catering mak

• satay
• ketupat
• roti canai
• manisan cameron
  

mok sponsor buah rambutan, popiah

bapak sponsor betik, langsat

hehe...aku jadi manager jak lah

Tahun pertama raya kedirik

tok gamba di ambik kedirik..view dari rak kasut dengan bantuan kotak scrabble dan kamus...Harith senyum sebelum melalak lagik

pose skema family ku....huhu

newly-wed...baruk masuk 3 tahun bah

kek-kek dan biskut tunjuk ku....sik ada masa mauk molah kedirik...lelah eh..bulan posa memang dugaan...

kacak kan lampu raya hasil creative daddy..rumah org lain semua ada lampu ngelilin atap..rumah mek org jak ada lampu murah yg dihias kreaif..huhu


Tok gambar rumah raya tahun tok...huhu..semua first time..

• first time ngubah bunga
• first time masak ketupat
• first time masak daging
• first time tanam bunga
  

heehehe...tapi berjaya juak..lupak mauk ngambik menu raya
hasil usaha sendirik ialah:

1. ketupat
2. nasik impit ...rebus jak nok instant
3. manok masak kerutup
4. daging masak black pepper

raya tahun tok mencabar juak sebab Harith berolah ..nya demam sebelum raya jadi memang nangis jak masa raya..sik enjoy..dah nak abis raya baruk dapat ngambik gambar

dah lah melalak jak bila sampe rumah org..org datang rumah pun nya melalak...mauk dalam keta jak..ne lah raya mun giya..raya rumah wajib jak..ya pun macam kenak kepung jak